10/17/15
What do you do when someone takes your Halloween costume idea? From Copy Costume Cat:
Dear Princess Know-It-All,
I was going to be a movie star for Halloween. I had this great outfit planned and everything! But then the day before I was going to go to the mall and buy the costume this super popular girl started bragging to everyone about how she was going to be a movie star for Halloween and now I don't know what to do because if I go as a movie star now it will look like I copied her! What do I do?
-Copy Costume Cat
I was going to be a movie star for Halloween. I had this great outfit planned and everything! But then the day before I was going to go to the mall and buy the costume this super popular girl started bragging to everyone about how she was going to be a movie star for Halloween and now I don't know what to do because if I go as a movie star now it will look like I copied her! What do I do?
-Copy Costume Cat
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear Copy Costume Cat,
Having an idea and then having it look like you're copying some one is horrible. It's like, you had this great costume planned for ages and now someone else gets all the credit? Not cool. But this popular girl had no way of knowing what you were going to be, so it can't have been intentional. You could just pick out another costume, but you really don't have to. If you love the movie star outfit so much, just go for it! If the popular girl calls you a copy cat, just tell her the truth. Say that you had an idea for this costume a while ago, and that it's funny that you both had the same idea. Movie stars aren't that uncommon as Halloween costumes, so who knows--maybe there will be lots of movie stars. No matter what, don't let this girl ruin Halloween for you.
Having an idea and then having it look like you're copying some one is horrible. It's like, you had this great costume planned for ages and now someone else gets all the credit? Not cool. But this popular girl had no way of knowing what you were going to be, so it can't have been intentional. You could just pick out another costume, but you really don't have to. If you love the movie star outfit so much, just go for it! If the popular girl calls you a copy cat, just tell her the truth. Say that you had an idea for this costume a while ago, and that it's funny that you both had the same idea. Movie stars aren't that uncommon as Halloween costumes, so who knows--maybe there will be lots of movie stars. No matter what, don't let this girl ruin Halloween for you.
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
8/29/15
What do you do when you're starting a new school? From School Scare:
Dear Princess Know-It-All,
I'm starting middle school at a new school this fall and I'm terrified I won't have any friends! I'm really shy and only just moved here, so I'm even more shy and uncertain than usual. I'm afraid I'm going to make a fool out of myself on the first day of school when I don't have anywhere to sit at lunch, or if I don't get to class on time because I can't find the classroom!
I'm starting middle school at a new school this fall and I'm terrified I won't have any friends! I'm really shy and only just moved here, so I'm even more shy and uncertain than usual. I'm afraid I'm going to make a fool out of myself on the first day of school when I don't have anywhere to sit at lunch, or if I don't get to class on time because I can't find the classroom!
-School Scare
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear School Scare,
I can totally understand why you're scared. A new school? Middle school? A whole new place? I would be nervous too! But here's the thing. There are probably others who feel just as terrified and shy as you do right now, and there will be others who have been living in this place for their whole lives and have tons of friends but will always open up their circles and make room for you. No matter what, there will be people around to support you on that tough first day, even if they're teachers.
What's one thing you can do to make friends? Join in after school activities! This is probably the best way to make friends, because you'll be hanging out with people who like to do the same things that you do. And here's another. That first day of school lunch you're worried about might seen scary, but actually the first day is when everyone is establishing where they'll sit and who they'll sit with, and they'll be much more open to you walking up to them and saying, "Hi, can I sit here?" As you start to get to know people in your classes, you'll find yourself becoming more outgoing and getting to know others better.
Also, in the beginning of the school year, teachers are much more understanding about new students struggling to find their way around. They won't mark you late unless they're really strict (which usually doesn't happen). And if you can't find the classroom, go ahead and ask another student or a hallway monitor! There will be lots of people there to help you. So it might feel like a tough first day, but you'll make it through and eventually you'll build your confidence and make lots of new friends! Good luck with the school year!
What's one thing you can do to make friends? Join in after school activities! This is probably the best way to make friends, because you'll be hanging out with people who like to do the same things that you do. And here's another. That first day of school lunch you're worried about might seen scary, but actually the first day is when everyone is establishing where they'll sit and who they'll sit with, and they'll be much more open to you walking up to them and saying, "Hi, can I sit here?" As you start to get to know people in your classes, you'll find yourself becoming more outgoing and getting to know others better.
Also, in the beginning of the school year, teachers are much more understanding about new students struggling to find their way around. They won't mark you late unless they're really strict (which usually doesn't happen). And if you can't find the classroom, go ahead and ask another student or a hallway monitor! There will be lots of people there to help you. So it might feel like a tough first day, but you'll make it through and eventually you'll build your confidence and make lots of new friends! Good luck with the school year!
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
7/24/15
8/20/15
Today's fashion question comes from Fashion Felony, who writes:
Hi Princess Know-It-All! I'm soooooo glad I found this website because I have no idea what to do!
Okay, so I'm going to this big birthday party for one of the most popular girls in school, and I only just became friends with her so I really don't want to mess this thing up. I convinced my mom to buy me makeup and a really cute white party dress and black ballet flats. The dress was pretty expensive and my mom made it very clear that I had to be super careful not to stain it. I'm pretty clumsy, so I swore to her I would be super duper careful. But then today I was drinking chocolate milk in my room and accidentally spilled it down the front of the dress! The party is in just a few days, and I can't wear it with a brown stain down the front! What do I do? My mom will be furious and there's no way she'll buy me another!
-Fashion Felony
Okay, so I'm going to this big birthday party for one of the most popular girls in school, and I only just became friends with her so I really don't want to mess this thing up. I convinced my mom to buy me makeup and a really cute white party dress and black ballet flats. The dress was pretty expensive and my mom made it very clear that I had to be super careful not to stain it. I'm pretty clumsy, so I swore to her I would be super duper careful. But then today I was drinking chocolate milk in my room and accidentally spilled it down the front of the dress! The party is in just a few days, and I can't wear it with a brown stain down the front! What do I do? My mom will be furious and there's no way she'll buy me another!
-Fashion Felony
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear Fashion Felony,
I can see the mess you're in right now. Your mom got you an expensive dress even though you can be a bit clumsy and you stained it--a white dress--with chocolate milk? Well, let me tell you, accidents happen. They even happen to adults. You might not want to, but you have to tell your mom what happened. Tell her you're sorry. But also let her know that it really was an accident.
You might feel like this is the end of the world, but guess what? Someone invented stain remover for a reason. Stain remover saves lives--I know what I'm talking about, when I was eight I stained a dress with cherry juice accidentally, but my grandma got it off so well that you couldn't even see where it was originally. Try stain remover first. Then, if not, you can always try a dry cleaner. If your mom doesn't want to spend more money, you can dig into your own savings to pay for it, or if you don't have any money tell your mom you'll help out with household chores to make up for it. Parents love to see children being responsible for their actions. If worst comes to worst, however, you can wear something else. I know you don't want this answer, but you still have the shoes and the makeup, and you'll still look great! Don't worry about "messing it up" at the popular girl's party--if she wants to be your friend it shouldn't matter what you wear! It's not about what you wear, it's about the fact that you're coming at all. Good luck and have fun at the party!
You might feel like this is the end of the world, but guess what? Someone invented stain remover for a reason. Stain remover saves lives--I know what I'm talking about, when I was eight I stained a dress with cherry juice accidentally, but my grandma got it off so well that you couldn't even see where it was originally. Try stain remover first. Then, if not, you can always try a dry cleaner. If your mom doesn't want to spend more money, you can dig into your own savings to pay for it, or if you don't have any money tell your mom you'll help out with household chores to make up for it. Parents love to see children being responsible for their actions. If worst comes to worst, however, you can wear something else. I know you don't want this answer, but you still have the shoes and the makeup, and you'll still look great! Don't worry about "messing it up" at the popular girl's party--if she wants to be your friend it shouldn't matter what you wear! It's not about what you wear, it's about the fact that you're coming at all. Good luck and have fun at the party!
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
What to do when your friend's crush asked you out? From Betraying BFF:
Dear Princess Know-It-All,
Please help! A few months ago my BFF told me about this guy she has a big crush on. She talked about him so much, and then we all started hanging out together! But then I got a crush on him too, since we were hanging out so much. I didn't tell my BFF about this because I didn't want to betray her, but then the guy asked me out over a text message instead of my BFF! I have no idea what to do now, because I really like him but I don't want to be a horrible friend! This could be my only chance. What do I do???
-Betraying BFF
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear Betraying BFF,
I totally get why this would be a huge struggle for you. I mean, having to choose between your BFF and an awesome guy (at least I assume he's awesome, I don't know him) must be really tough. You might be dreading this answer, but you should really tell your friend about this. Tell her the truth, because she needs to hear it. Don't let her chase after a guy who isn't interested and don't go behind her back because if she found out she would probably feel more betrayed than if you just explained it all to her. Ask her if it's okay that you go out with him. She may be upset at first, but I bet she wants you to be happy. Also, make sure that she knows that you feel confused (and maybe a little guilty) about the whole thing. If you really want to say yes to this guy, make sure your friend understands this decision. Don't let a guy get in the way of your friendship, but don't let your friendship get in the way of your love life either. I hope this helps! Good luck!
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
7/23/15
What to do when your parents forget to buy you a hamster? From Unhappy Without a Hamster:
Please help me out!
I really want to get a hamster this summer. But every time I mention it to my parents it sort of seems like it's going to happen but then fizzles out and nothing happens! I really want to get one because my cousin had one and her hamster was so sweet and adorable! How can I make sure my parents won't forget?
-Unhappy Without a Hamster
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear Unhappy Without a Hamster,
I totally understand your pain here. Everyone needs a pet, I have more than a few. Here's a few things you could do to get your parents to take you to the pet store:
- Set a date and put it on the calendar. This may help your parents remember, and if you have a date picked out they will probably remember more.
- Figure out more of the details like where to get your hamster, what's the best food to give it, etc. All parents like it when you're responsible for these kind of things.
- Keep reminding them about. If you do, they will totally remember and know that you really do want this hamster and take care of it.
Also remember that it's okay if in the end you don't end up with this hamster--lots of people don't have pets, and they're a fairly big responsibility since you're basically in charge of their lives. But it sounds like your parents are totally fine with getting you one and just need to remember. Good luck!
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
7/22/15
What to do when you're the third wheel? From Third Wheeler:
Dear Princess Know-It-All,
My friend and I have known each other since we were little. We're best friends, but now she's made friends with this new girl. My best friend is treating me like a third wheel and I never see her outside of school anymore. I've been really lonely, and I really need a friend. I'm not sure if I should talk to my friend or not. Please help!
--Third Wheeler
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear Third Wheeler,
Being a third wheel stinks. Trust me, I know from experience. I was lonely, but after a while, I finally told my friend how I felt. We weren't besties right away, but now we are best friends again. So, tell your friend how you feel, because she might not even realize that she's excluding you like this. Or if you feel awkward saying this, just ask her to hang out sometime. Honesty and communication are the keys to a good relationship. Don't give up on a good friend! But keep in mind that sometimes people do grow apart. Remember that it's okay to hang out with other friends and meet new people too--be open to new, strong friendships. I hope this helps!
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
7/20/15
What to do when you just can't decide on what to wear? From Fashionably Late:
PLEASE HELP ME PRINCESS KNOW-IT-ALL!!!
I'm helping out at a little kids camp for two weeks, and like EVERYDAY for this first week I just haven't been able to choose a top to go with my gray denim shorts! I'd like to wear my denim jacket or a long sleeved top, but you know, denim with denim? Eww! And it's too hot to wear long sleeves! I've been almost late all week, and my family has been really annoyed with me. I don't want this to happen again next camp week. But OMG, how can I buy all these cool and trendy tops all school year and suddenly have nothing to wear for a kids camp? I don't want to be late! I'm getting PAID for this thing!
-Fashionably Late
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear Fashionably Late,
I can so relate to your problems. It's like, you buy a cool long sleeved shirt and never wear it when it's cold, but suddenly you love it when it's 90 degrees outside? But here's my advice. Plan out your outfits the night before. It will really save you time--and in your case, money--because you won't have to rush around the next morning before camp trying to find a nice shirt. Also, remember that this is just a little kids camp. I know thatyou care what you look like, but this isn't school. Those little kids wouldn't care if you came in wearing a plaid with stripes (ultimate fashion disgrace) or a hot dog suit (actually they would love you in a hot dog suit). And it you must, wear one of those long sleeved shirts you like and just roll up the sleeves. The most important thing is for you to get to camp on time!
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
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