We all know that the heart and the brain do not agree on very much. We don't decide on who we have crushes on, and do not have very much control on how we act around them. You say things that you don't mean to say and can act like a complete idiot sometimes. That's why I'm helping you know what to do before you get yourself into a very embarrassing situation. I'll help you know what to say and how to act around that special someone. But please, I am not responsible for your short term memory loss around them. Listen to me, I know how nervous they can make you.
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
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7/24/15
Today's love question from Betraying BFF:
Today's love question from Betraying BFF:
Dear Princess Know-It-All,
Please help! A few months ago my BFF told me about this guy she has a big crush on. She talked about him so much, and then we all started hanging out together! But then I got a crush on him too, since we were hanging out so much. I didn't tell my BFF about this because I didn't want to betray her, but then the guy asked me out over a text message instead of my BFF! I have no idea what to do now, because I really like him but I don't want to be a horrible friend! This could be my only chance. What do I do???
-Betraying BFF
From Princess Know-It-All:
Dear Betraying BFF,
I totally get why this would be a huge struggle for you. I mean, having to choose between your BFF and an awesome guy (at least I assume he's awesome, I don't know him) must be really tough. This is a really hard question to answer, since it partly depends on your BFF's and your crush's personalities, but I'll do my best to help you out here. You might be dreading this answer, but you should really tell your friend about this. Tell her the truth, because she needs to hear it. Don't let her chase after a guy who isn't interested and don't go behind her back because if she found out she would probably feel more betrayed than if you just explained it all to her. Ask her if it's okay that you go out with him. She may be upset at first, but I bet she wants you to be happy. Also, make sure that she knows that you feel confused (and maybe a little guilty) about the whole thing. If you really want to say yes to your crush, make sure your friend understands this decision. Don't let a guy get in the way of your friendship, but don't let your friendship get in the way of your love life either. I hope this helps! Good luck!
Yours Truly,
Princess Know-It-All
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